Category Archives: vocation

So how was the Nun Run? (follow up on 3/16 post)

Nun Runners sharing a meal with Sr. Monica and Sr. Mary Bea at Visitation Spiritual Center

Great! Eight women participated in the whirlwind visit to six different communities in the Detroit area between last Friday at 6:00 PM and Saturday at 8:00 PM. A Nun Run provides a way to experience how different groups of sisters  live out their call to religious life. Though the time limit precluded some areas of interest to the women like the steps in the formation process,  the vows and an experience with the sisters in their ministries they recognized the advantage of getting to know a little bit about the different groups in a day. You might call it one stop shopping. In their favorite session the runners learned what “charism” meant and then were treated to a creative process in which each vocation director brought two objects that were significant for the community and why. Nothing like visual aids! Then they each told two of stories showing how their sisters live the charism today. One of the runners said that the most important thing for her was “seeing the orders together and being able to see how they are different yet the same.” Another commented about the day,”I have a better sense of where and what I’m called to.” Another added, ” I think today helped me realize that I’m being called into deeper discernment. Some days it’s so easy to brush off that gentle tugging on my heart.” She continued, “even being around sisters fills me with such joy and happiness, and it just feels right.” One said on her evaluation,” I loved praying with the sisters and eating meals together.”

If you’re sensing a call to religious life and have the opportunity to go on a Nun Run I highly recommend it.

“Nunnabes” and Friends


For the last few days we’ve had a fabulous time hosting nine women interested in joining the IHMs in some way. This was the weekend of our Coordinating Council meeting so many of our sisters who live at a distance, even Puerto Rico and Washington, DC were home for it. We  invited some IHM “wannabes” to hang out with us and join in the prayer and  presentations at the CC. I’m not sure which was best, the laughter, the wonderful sharing or the extra loud but delightful noise in the dining room. However, I do know  a lot of discerning happened as we shared our lives.

We’d love you to “Come and See”

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Meet Sister Kathy


IHMs in Action Sister Kathy blends her faith formation ministry with her design ministry. She’s shown here with Thomas, a young parishioner. Sister Kathy Onderbeke, IHM, wears two different ministry hats. She’s the director of faith formation at St. Louis Catholic Community on Clinton Township, Mich., a full-time job in a parish of more than 900 families. She is also a graphic designer, serving both the St. Louis and the IHM communities on a part-time basis. “I had been attending liturgy at St. Louis and had just finished my graphic design degree when the parish received word that a transition would begin with a neighboring parish,” Sister Kathy recalls. “I knew this would increase the pastoral needs, so I offered to help while I looked for work.” “The pastor asked if I could do Christian formation. When I said yes, he told me to get him my resume. I’m now in my fourth year at St. Louis.” Sister Kathy’s design ministry has involved creating logos, clip art and custom programs for St. Louis, as well as flyers, displays, brochures and ads for the IHM Sisters. “I like the energy and creativity design projects allow,” she says. Her time management skills and the flexibility of both the parish and the IHM community allow the unusual arrangement to work. Sister Kathy’s parish responsibilities include being part of a three-person pastoral team in addition to developing and implementing faith formation programs. “It’s a typical parish structure where you do what needs to be done,” she laughs. Her ministry gives her the opportunity to work with people of all ages, something she truly enjoys. She works with children, adults and those wishing to become Catholic in the RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) program. “I love the balance of working with different age groups,” she says. “Each generation has its own gifts and challenges; it s all about making the most of them. One of my favorite aspects of the ministry is accepting where people are and finding ways to engage them in their faith development.  Parishioners have told Sister Kathy that she has a gift for making children feel comfortable. “I don’t expect kids to behave like mini-adults,” Sister Kathy explains. “But I do look for activities that draw them into their faith and engage them in the life of the community. “For instance, Christopher, age 2, helps me open the church doors and puts the stoppers down. Thomas, age 3, helps me greet people. Recently, he showed a little 2-year-old how you get the water ready to ”o the dishes,’ telling her that when she gets big like him, she’ll be able to help too. “They’re involved with their faith community and enjoying themselves,” Sister Kathy continues. “Along the way, they learn not only about their faith, but also that they matter and belong. “It’s not about the tasks we do, but about the relationships we build.”

What’s Your Decision?


Do I go to grad school? Whom should I marry? Should I change careers? Am I called to religious life? All of us have important decisions to make–decisions that radically alter our lives.  Yet without a sound process in place for making key decisions, we are likely to to question whether or not our final decision was a good decision. Can we feel confident that our decision  was truly what God desired for us.

For those who truly want to make their decisions with God, What’s Your Decision? is a tremendous resource.  The authors provide clear principles and steps for good discernment and show that is not just a technique for making decisions, but rather a rich way of living our lives. They encourage us, “We don’t need to have it all together to make sound decisions. We don’t have to be perfect. We don’t need to be deterred by imperfect knowledge and murky circumstances. If we are earnestly seeking God we won’t go far wrong.”