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IHMs prepare for Chapter 2012

Chapter 2012! What’s that you might ask. Since religious communities are living, breathing organisms,  they don’t just keep existing from year to year. If they’re healthy they  grow and change in response to God’s new invitations to them. Thus all congregations meet every four to six years to set directions for the future and open to the Spirit’s call.

This year the IHM community comes together for Chapter 2012 from January 23 to 28, and this will include election of our IHM Leadership Council for 2012 to 2018. Then on Sunday,  January 29, the whole community–vowed members, associates and friends –will gather at a 2:00 PM Mass in the Motherhouse  chapel to celebrate the graces of the Chapter and our newly elected Leadership Council. We’d love to have you with us on the twenty-ninth if that’s possible for you. Give me a call at 734-240-9820 if you’d like to come. 

Of course we don’t take lightly the importance of this time . We desire to be  open to the Spirit of God moving among us, so we’ve been joining in this prayer for the whole year. As friends of IHM I invite you to pray it with us.

PRAYER FOR IHM LA ASAMBLEA – ASSEMBLY 2011

God, life-giving Spirit:
Traveling our communal faith journey, you guide us.
Stepping along the pathway toward our destiny, you guide us.
Discovering our purpose for existing, you guide us.

Listening to our journey’s life-revelations, you walk with us.
Sharing our story with others, you walk with us.
Discovering the wisdom in each other, you walk with us.

Gathering strength from one another, you give us courage.
Believing in our abundant wisdom, you give us courage.
Celebrating our passion for mission, you give us courage.

Seeing what to keep and what to let go, you give us new life.
Daring to dream, you give us new life.
Moving into a prophetic vision, you give us new life.

God, life-giving Spirit, you guide us into a future full of hope.
Thank you for our wisdom experiences and for all that
will unfold on our journey.
Amen.

Feel free to ask if you’d like to know more about Chapters in religious communities.

World Aids Day


Yesterday over a hundred sisters and a number of our staff participated in  a prayer service to commemorate World Aids Day and reflect on how we are called to respond to the worldwide Aids pandemic. The IHMcommunity has been committed to Aids awareness for over 20 years, thanks in great part to the leadership of our sisters ministering in Africa. Many years ago Americans could ignore the problem of Aids because it was thought only countries like Africa had the  problem. Sr. Rita Rennel, IHM one of our sisters who was missioned in Africa for many years shared a poignant memory of six caskets sitting in the back of their chuch, one of them their secretary, a wonderful woman who became an innocent victim. As HIV Aids began spreading in the United States paranoia about catching Aids resulted in alienation of those suffering from the disease. As you know ,after extensive education the fear of Aids lessened and in addition, advances in retroviral drugs made the disease less of a life sentence in more advenced  countries like the US and Europe. Two of my friends here in Michigan, however, experienced the horror of Aids as they watched their daughter die of the disease. The man she had married was HIV positive but didn’t tell her because he didn’t want to die alone. Aids continues its devastation, and sadly those in poverty, particularly  in  the African American community have limited access to the life saving drugs. Here’s a link to our prayer service:
http://www.ihmsisters.org/www/Justice_Peace_and_Sustainability/hivaids.asp
I was not surprised, but I have to admit to pride that so many sisters participated in the prayer yesterday afternoon. This is a group of lifelong learners, well-informed on issues and committed to social justice.

We’d love to welcome you!


Wondering whether God is calling you to religious life?
Sometimes feeling you’re just going round and round in your head?
Wish there were other discerners to share with?

We invite you to join us for a discernment retreat that includes prayer , “hanging out with some sisters,”  input to help you with your discernment and sharing with other discerners.
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Sr. Peg’s Journey

When Sister Peg was home visiting her mother in our Health Care Center I asked her to share with me about her life in South Africa. She recently sent me this reflection that not only about South Africa, but of the pretty amazing twists and turns that got her there. Enjoy!

Sr. Peg and her mother Margaret

As my 50th jubilee approaches, I am reflecting upon the impact of the amazing novitiate and education provided to members of our Congregation all down the years, but especially during the Vatican II Council. Joining the Congregation was a life-changing experience for me in discovering God’s unconditional love revealed in the Person of Jesus – and of our invitation in baptism to love and serve. I carried this amazing formation into ministries in Michigan; Ohio; Ontario, Canada; North Carolina; Missouri and eventually KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa – through teaching 5-12th grade; Visitation House of Prayer, theological study, pastoral ministry, migrant ministry, CSsR formation, publications and outreach to the poor.

A turning point for me was ministry as secretary of the Overseas Missions Province in mid-80’s. I was asked by Mary Jo Maher to study the life and spirituality of St. Alphonsus Liguori, which was definitely not one of my interests at the time. I wanted to work with the Overseas Missions – and I assumed that the study of St. Alphonsus and his works would be on the back burner!

With Mary Jo’s encouragement I began reading several ‘old time’ biographies (only ones available) and the old series of ‘green books’, published in 1932 by Eugene Grimm of many of the 111 books St Alphonsus wrote during his lifetime (1696-1787). Because I was being exposed to a variety of cultural differences through ministry with Sisters in Latin America and Africa and at the same time I was studying St. Alphonsus, I became aware that I needed to focus on the deep values of Alphonsus’ writings, not on the Neapolitan expression, style, examples, etc. that made his message so appealing way to his readers in the 1700’s. As my study continued, I fell in love with Alphonsian Spirituality,. with the vision of a God who is madly in love with us; with Jesus who was willing to live and to bleed for us; with Eucharist as the Divine with us as food and support; with commitment to God’s will as the only understandable response to such a loving God; with Mary as our advocate; with prayer making grace available to all people; with zeal for the mission and for the abandoned a priority; etc. I understood that Alphonsian Spirituality needed to be freed from its culturally unattractive presentation and offered as the gift that it truly is. Happily, young Redemptorists have begun to communicate a truer image of Alphonsian Spirituality for our time and place with new biographies, translations and expressions of his works.

Just as being influenced by overseas cultural differences helped me to see St. Alphonusus in a new light, being a student of Alphonsian Spirituality led me to minister with the  Formation Team of CSsRs in St. Louis in late 80′s. Then, in 1992, I was invited to teach Alphonsian Spirituality in South Africa to novices and students. I had cried in the late 60’s when I was missioned so far away – to Akron, Ohio; but South Africa seemed closer and presented a new opportunity to learn and to share. I spent my first year in Africa in a rural area near Bergville. I lived with CSsRs in mud huts with a pump for water, fire for hot water bathing, washing clothes in buckets, breaking ice in winter to wash our hands in plastic bowls, etc. I learned a new way of slowing down while working hard to survive. I also taught Alphonsian Spirituality on the days when we were not hosting visitors or retreatants. I learned that rural Africa can operate on a different time and schedule – and not too many classes were actually taught.

In the years following Bergville, I have been blessed to minister with CSsRs among the poor who make up the majority of the population. I have experienced many emotions and feelings: joy, fear, encouragement, resentment, hope, despair, confidence, disapproval, abundance, poverty, energy, unconditional love. South Africa is deepening and challenging me in ways that I would never have expected. I do see animals and tall grass, but the daily life is more demanding than one could imagine and more wonderful than one could believe. My greatest hope is that a young IHM will continue the study of our treasure of heritage from St. Alphonsus and that others will continue ministry in South Africa in the next decades.

Sr. Peg and her South African friend