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Meet Sister Kathy


IHMs in Action Sister Kathy blends her faith formation ministry with her design ministry. She’s shown here with Thomas, a young parishioner. Sister Kathy Onderbeke, IHM, wears two different ministry hats. She’s the director of faith formation at St. Louis Catholic Community on Clinton Township, Mich., a full-time job in a parish of more than 900 families. She is also a graphic designer, serving both the St. Louis and the IHM communities on a part-time basis. “I had been attending liturgy at St. Louis and had just finished my graphic design degree when the parish received word that a transition would begin with a neighboring parish,” Sister Kathy recalls. “I knew this would increase the pastoral needs, so I offered to help while I looked for work.” “The pastor asked if I could do Christian formation. When I said yes, he told me to get him my resume. I’m now in my fourth year at St. Louis.” Sister Kathy’s design ministry has involved creating logos, clip art and custom programs for St. Louis, as well as flyers, displays, brochures and ads for the IHM Sisters. “I like the energy and creativity design projects allow,” she says. Her time management skills and the flexibility of both the parish and the IHM community allow the unusual arrangement to work. Sister Kathy’s parish responsibilities include being part of a three-person pastoral team in addition to developing and implementing faith formation programs. “It’s a typical parish structure where you do what needs to be done,” she laughs. Her ministry gives her the opportunity to work with people of all ages, something she truly enjoys. She works with children, adults and those wishing to become Catholic in the RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) program. “I love the balance of working with different age groups,” she says. “Each generation has its own gifts and challenges; it s all about making the most of them. One of my favorite aspects of the ministry is accepting where people are and finding ways to engage them in their faith development.  Parishioners have told Sister Kathy that she has a gift for making children feel comfortable. “I don’t expect kids to behave like mini-adults,” Sister Kathy explains. “But I do look for activities that draw them into their faith and engage them in the life of the community. “For instance, Christopher, age 2, helps me open the church doors and puts the stoppers down. Thomas, age 3, helps me greet people. Recently, he showed a little 2-year-old how you get the water ready to ”o the dishes,’ telling her that when she gets big like him, she’ll be able to help too. “They’re involved with their faith community and enjoying themselves,” Sister Kathy continues. “Along the way, they learn not only about their faith, but also that they matter and belong. “It’s not about the tasks we do, but about the relationships we build.”

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Sr. Peg’s Journey

When Sister Peg was home visiting her mother in our Health Care Center I asked her to share with me about her life in South Africa. She recently sent me this reflection that not only about South Africa, but of the pretty amazing twists and turns that got her there. Enjoy!

Sr. Peg and her mother Margaret

As my 50th jubilee approaches, I am reflecting upon the impact of the amazing novitiate and education provided to members of our Congregation all down the years, but especially during the Vatican II Council. Joining the Congregation was a life-changing experience for me in discovering God’s unconditional love revealed in the Person of Jesus – and of our invitation in baptism to love and serve. I carried this amazing formation into ministries in Michigan; Ohio; Ontario, Canada; North Carolina; Missouri and eventually KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa – through teaching 5-12th grade; Visitation House of Prayer, theological study, pastoral ministry, migrant ministry, CSsR formation, publications and outreach to the poor.

A turning point for me was ministry as secretary of the Overseas Missions Province in mid-80’s. I was asked by Mary Jo Maher to study the life and spirituality of St. Alphonsus Liguori, which was definitely not one of my interests at the time. I wanted to work with the Overseas Missions – and I assumed that the study of St. Alphonsus and his works would be on the back burner!

With Mary Jo’s encouragement I began reading several ‘old time’ biographies (only ones available) and the old series of ‘green books’, published in 1932 by Eugene Grimm of many of the 111 books St Alphonsus wrote during his lifetime (1696-1787). Because I was being exposed to a variety of cultural differences through ministry with Sisters in Latin America and Africa and at the same time I was studying St. Alphonsus, I became aware that I needed to focus on the deep values of Alphonsus’ writings, not on the Neapolitan expression, style, examples, etc. that made his message so appealing way to his readers in the 1700’s. As my study continued, I fell in love with Alphonsian Spirituality,. with the vision of a God who is madly in love with us; with Jesus who was willing to live and to bleed for us; with Eucharist as the Divine with us as food and support; with commitment to God’s will as the only understandable response to such a loving God; with Mary as our advocate; with prayer making grace available to all people; with zeal for the mission and for the abandoned a priority; etc. I understood that Alphonsian Spirituality needed to be freed from its culturally unattractive presentation and offered as the gift that it truly is. Happily, young Redemptorists have begun to communicate a truer image of Alphonsian Spirituality for our time and place with new biographies, translations and expressions of his works.

Just as being influenced by overseas cultural differences helped me to see St. Alphonusus in a new light, being a student of Alphonsian Spirituality led me to minister with the  Formation Team of CSsRs in St. Louis in late 80′s. Then, in 1992, I was invited to teach Alphonsian Spirituality in South Africa to novices and students. I had cried in the late 60’s when I was missioned so far away – to Akron, Ohio; but South Africa seemed closer and presented a new opportunity to learn and to share. I spent my first year in Africa in a rural area near Bergville. I lived with CSsRs in mud huts with a pump for water, fire for hot water bathing, washing clothes in buckets, breaking ice in winter to wash our hands in plastic bowls, etc. I learned a new way of slowing down while working hard to survive. I also taught Alphonsian Spirituality on the days when we were not hosting visitors or retreatants. I learned that rural Africa can operate on a different time and schedule – and not too many classes were actually taught.

In the years following Bergville, I have been blessed to minister with CSsRs among the poor who make up the majority of the population. I have experienced many emotions and feelings: joy, fear, encouragement, resentment, hope, despair, confidence, disapproval, abundance, poverty, energy, unconditional love. South Africa is deepening and challenging me in ways that I would never have expected. I do see animals and tall grass, but the daily life is more demanding than one could imagine and more wonderful than one could believe. My greatest hope is that a young IHM will continue the study of our treasure of heritage from St. Alphonsus and that others will continue ministry in South Africa in the next decades.

Sr. Peg and her South African friend

Seeing Other Cultures Differently

Setting for the presentation

We’re beginning a fantastic series of workshops entitled Culture Inspired Spiritualities. This morning Sr. Kate Pierce who founded and directed a department of inculturation for Maryknoll Missionaries helped us to understand that we have a distinct culture and spirituality. They’re like the air we breathe, mostly unconscious. As children we thought the culture we knew was normative, e.g. eating dinner together every night, helping with chores, kissing mom and dad good night, saying prayers before going to bed. Then on a sleep over we found it wasn’t true. That family had a different culture. We may even have thought the other family did things wrong. When I was a child in elementary school I thought the Catholic culture was the right culture. But there is no right culture.  Each has positive and negative aspects. Kate began with this quote from Wade Davis, “The world in which we were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you: they are unique manifestations of the human spirit.” Although we have made considerable progress in cross cultural understaning  in the United States much more is needed. This afternoon the series continues with Teresa Nira, IHM Associate, who will speak on Latino Spirituality. In October two Muslim women will share their spirituality.  You’d be more than welcome if you’re nearby. (More later)

Quirky IHM her-story

IHM Archives Newsletter

 

Every month our sisters working in Archives publish a newsletter with quirky stories and little known facts about IHM life in the past. Below is a link to the latest Archives Notes. Consider this a mini-coursse in IHM her-story!

http://ihmsisters.org/media/publications_autogen/ArchivesNewsletter08312011.pdf