Monthly Archives: January 2010

Ministry of the Month – Sister Camille Brouillard, IHM

Each month we post a new Ministry of the Month on our IHM website. This month features Sister Camille Brouillard, IHM.

Sister Camille Brouillard, IHM, is the social work case manager for the IHM Motherhouse Health Care Center. She describes her ministry as making connections.

“I connect people to people and people to services,” she explains. “As residents are admitted to our Health Care or Memory Care units, I meet with them to assess their needs – medically, cognitively, socially – and then set up services to meet those needs. I follow up to make sure appropriate services are provided.”

“I’m an advocate for residents, and I serve as a bridge between residents, staff and administration,” Sister Camille continues. “I’m part of an interdisciplinary team. We have daily meetings to discuss any changes in a resident’s status, so we can make sure nothing falls through the cracks.”

Sister Camille transferred to the Monroe IHM Sisters from the Sisters of Charity of Ottawa (known as the “Grey Nuns”) in 1978. She ministered in Florida for 14 years, working with Haitian refugees and children with AIDS before moving to Monroe in 1998. She coordinated transportation for the Motherhouse residents for eight years and has served in her current ministry for the last two years.

“The changes in my life – transferring from the Grey Nuns to the IHMs, working with babies with AIDS and then with people at the other end of life’s spectrum – have taught me to trust that I’ll be where I’m supposed to be,” Sister Camille notes.
She often uses that trust as she works with residents.

“I walk around and spend time with those in need,” she says. “I’m frequently drawn to someone’s room but have no idea why. The reason usually becomes clear as I talk to the resident. I try to be accepting of who she is and what she’s feeling at that moment instead of trying to talk her out of any negative emotions. When people feel listened-to, they can often move beyond the negative.”

Sister Camille also helps Motherhouse residents complete advance directives to make their health care wishes known if they are ever unable to speak for themselves. She works with those serving as a Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) for any of the sisters to help them understand their roles. (DPOAs make decisions for the sisters only if they are unable to do so.) She also chairs the Grievance Committee and the Care Conference Committee, which meets weekly to go over the care plans for each resident, and sits on the Ethics Committee.

It’s clear that Sister Camille loves her ministry, but she admits the paperwork involved is a challenge. The ministry can also be difficult on a much more personal level.

“These women are my sisters,” she says quietly. “Watching people I know and care about struggle with declining health is hard.

“But the rewards are huge! A smile from someone who had been unresponsive, hearing people’s stories – those are graced moments. I feel like I’m making a difference.”

A New Year on “A Nun’s Life”

If you are searching sites about discerning a religious vocation you surely are checking the website, www.anunslife.org regularly.  Sr. Julie’s posts are always interesting, insightful and challenging. Yesterday’s post, “Is God calling me?” provides such helpful, provocative questions.  If you haven’t read it yet I can’t encourage you enough to do so. In fact I recommend using her questions as discernment prayer starters.  You might take one or two per day and spend some quality time letting the clarity emerge gradually. Sometimes it’s hard to focus and be quiet so that you can hear where God is leading. Good questions often help.

There are two other reasons why I specially appreciate yesterday’s post.  Sr. Julie made such a good point.  The beginning of a New Year can provide just the right nudge for getting down to business. Markers like a new year help us get to what we want to do but never quite get around to accomplishing. I know the markers of Advent and Lent always add help me  be more serious in my search for God.  And on a lighter note, let’s face it,  the approach of summer often gets us thinking about exercising and losing weight. So it is a good idea to use the movement into a new year to get serious about a next step in discerning your call.

I guess my second reason is closely related.  In any discernment you or I can go around and around in our heads waiting ’til we’re absolutely sure before taking a first step.  Of course that only makes us dizzy and confused. It’s the beginning of a new year. Let’s take that step.

‘Gotta share

During this last month I’ve so appreciated  a reflection book for Advent and Christmas, Choose Life, published by our IHM sisters of Scranton, Pennsylvania.  Today’s offering by Sister Paula Gallagher, IHM struck me forcefully and I just have to share it. The Gospel for today is John 1: 19-28 in which John the Baptist is asked if he is the Christ.  In his answer he proclaims in the words of isaiah that he is a “voice that cries in the wilderness: Make a straight way for the Lord.”  Later he points to Jesus as he says, I have seen and I am the witness that he is the Chosen One of God.” As Paula says, All John wants “for his followers is a straight, focused, unencumbered way to God.

Sister Paula reflects that John has emerged “from a long time in the wilderness scoured of any illusions.  He knows who he is and who he is not… Life scours us too as we grow… It is only in the solitude of absolutely honest prayer we are taught directly who we are, whom we must become and how we’re meant to point to God.”

I believe that the above is a lifetime challenges all us, knowing who we are and how we’re meant to point to God. I share it today because it reflects what I hear women discerning religious life express in many different ways, that they want to give their lives to Jesus that they may lead others to God. In addition I’m caught by Paula’s insight that absolutely honest prayer scours us of illusions that we might know who we are and how we’re called to point to God. This is the bedrock of all discernment.  I pray for that blessing for you and all of us as we move into this new year.